Monday, March 29, 2010


From now on, think of this blog as Arizona. Why? Because from now on you'll find no "C" (sea) here.

Yep. That's right. How else do you talk about something like this other than just to say it? This is why until two months ago I never listed myself as "in a relationship" on Facebook. Because what happens when you aren't? I wasn't going to say anything, and just let enough time go by until someone noticed I hadn't written about him/us for however long. But that seems unfair. He was a big part of my life. I don't want to sweep him under the rug. So here you go. Full disclosure. Keeping it real.

What do you do when two people just want different things? I wish I could be mad at the guy but I can't. I'm very, very not mad at him. That's the problem. This was not my idea. No big fight, no harsh words. Just tears.

So blog friends, I'm going to be quiet for a while. You understand. My desire to blog (along with my desire to sing, my appetite, my mood and the majority of my iTunes library) has been shot to hell. It'll come back. Who knows when. Not this week.

If you choose to comment, that's fine but please remember Chris reads/read this blog and I won't handle anyone saying anything negative towards him. I am going to try very hard to still be friends with him. He's a great man. A sweet, funny, patient, fabulous man, who will make someone very happy in the future. Unfortunately, I'm afraid it won't be me. But like I said... that wasn't my idea.


  1. I've been reading your blog for a while but I dont usually comment but I just wanted to say I am sorry to hear this news. I will be thinking about you! Keep your head up!

    She is clothed in strength and dignity and laughs with no fear of the future. Proverbs 31:25

  2. Oh Lindsay, I wish I had known before I opened my big fat mouth about it in our messages. I'm so sorry. I don't really have a lot of words, but just know that I'm feelin' for ya. You rock, and deserve all the happiness in the world. Don't forget it.

  3. Angie Stabler3/29/2010 1:46 PM

    I am so sorry. I've been there. God does have a reason for this happening. Trust me and like I said, I've been there, and look who He brought into my life.
    Love you!

  4. Hey girl- I'll be thinking and praying for you and C during this time. Love you. "My power is made perfect in weakness." -The Lord

  5. Hang in there lindsAy with an A as in awesome. And Arizona isn't so bad without a sea, and I bet in a while you will be too. :)

  6. Thinking of you Lindsay, sorry you're going through a tough time. Thanks for sharing with your readers...

  7. Prayers for you. Prayers for C.

  8. My heart aches for you, funny girl. When you're ready to write again-- we'll be patiently waiting.

  9. The fact that you could even write this is one tiny step toward healing.
    Don't stay away too long, as the writing is therapeutic and defines my Linny!
    "God's promises are like stars; the darker the night, the brighter they shine." I love you my Cabbage!

  10. Kiddo I've been reading your blog for about 2 years and it's really has touched my heart at times. I have watch (read) you grow into a truly amazing woman and been pulling for you and C. It seemed like you guys had something very special. I'm so sorry and feel for both you and truly am at at loss for words. But I'll pray for both you and C.


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